One of the nicest things about the SCA, as far as I'm concerned, is that you have a ready-made group of people that you will have at least one thing in common with. There is a better than average chance that at least one person in the local group will end up becoming a friend. And if everything goes according to formula, I'm pretty sure that if we need help with something we can probably call on more than one of the people that were there last night and reasonably expect the help we need. The SCA, in my experience, is one big extended family that you didn't know you had. With all the good and bad that goes along with that. Take last night, for example. Usually when meeting a group of 7 complete strangers in one of their homes it's at least a little awkward or uncomfortable. At the very least there's a level of formality there. Not so much last night. Both Maggie and I were immediately comfortable, despite not knowing anyone and being in a completely foreign environment. Within minutes I was chatting with people as though we'd known each other for years. In less than hour I was involved in a discussion about period weaving techniques. By the end of the night RJ and I were both complicit (he more than I...I was just making suggestions) in shenanigans. Awkward? Not at all. Formality? What's that? These are our peeps. For reals.
The next three years are looking significantly less lonely and much more awesome. I'm not entirely certain we're going to want to leave. That's a very, very good thing!
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